Archive for November, 2007

i’m gonna post this entry in chinese as i’m still setting up my chinese blog but i’ve promised a buddy to put this into a blog post, so here you go. FYI, it’s quite an emo one.

我說過: 愛情是感性的, 不要用理性去分析, 不然會變很複雜
可是生活不是, 所以, 生活可以用理性去分析
因為, 我相信愛情和生活在我們的這個年齡是分不開的
回答妳的一些疑問, 以我目前認識的她到底有些甚麼特質能讓我對她有了一些特別的情愫…

未来是两个人在互相扶持, 而不是依靠…
她給我的感覺就是她不會太過依靠和依賴另一個人..
那是因為她那獨立自主的個性和她那有條有理的思路,
可是, 不瞞妳說, 那也同時讓我覺得她其實真的並不簡單…

她有那股不會讓人有喘息機會的活力, 讓我很享受和她每一次的談話
我喜歡她率直和爽朗的性格, 雖然還沒有和她真正相處過, 但是有一點我可以肯定得是, 這個性格以後一定會讓我們會有無數次的爭吵, 因為我知道我會受不了太率直的言語.

我也喜歡她和我一樣重視朋友,
因為朋友在某種程度上對我來說是排在情人之前的.
所以我不用擔心我們會少了和朋友相處的時間,
更加不用擔心我們會為了對方而忽略了各自的朋友,
因為忽略朋友對我來說, 是死罪…

還有, 在和她談話的過程中, 我覺得我們依然會有各自的私人空間..
私人空間於我的重要性, 是絕對的..
更何況一直以來, 我有連家人也不曾過問過的私人空間

那一晚, 她告訴過我她不喜歡動腦筋去為每一件事想一個解答, 這一點雖然和我的觀念有蠻大的出入, 但是在和她談話的過程里, 至少我知道她願意聆聽並能和另一個人分憂, 不論是在事業上, 家人, 人際關係, 朋友, 還是純粹生活上的瑣碎小事, 因為這對我來說很重要.. 要知道典型天秤座的我, 很多時候是很多愁善感的… 縱然很多時候我會很無奈, 甚至懊惱她可能不會給我一個答案, 或和我一起解決問題, 至少我覺得她應該能夠給扶我一把, 而不是棄我於不顧.

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我不否認, 真正認識她和了解她的時間真的不長, 所以, 有所保留是肯定的事..
而且還有很多很多思想觀念上的東西, 她依然是一個謎

我相信單以她的外在條件而言, 我的對手從吉隆坡開始排到她家鄉, 也未必排的完.
況且, 在這所有人中, 以目前的狀況來說, 比我條件好一百倍, 一萬倍的也肯定不少.
目前, 我是希望的是在我為生活拼搏的這段時間裡, 時間能站在我這一邊, 在她還沒有找到另一個寄託之前, 讓我能有足夠的時間好好的去認識這個人, 也同時讓她好好認識和了解我這個人, 因為我是絕對有自知之明的, 單以外在條件我可能已經輸了很多人幾條街

而且我也深深地了解到, 我在選人的同時, 別人也在選我..
這只不過是一個選擇的遊戲.

宇宙里沒有東西是永恆的, 除了時間…
就連偉大的太陽也終會因時間而有暗下來的一天.
所以把一切都交給時間, 是正確的..
我不敢奢望些甚麼, 我只是希望時間能夠站在我這一邊…

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我希望你不要誤解較早之前我說的一句話.
無可否認, 對於那個她, 我依然偶爾會想起..
畢竟, 她曾經是我生命的全部, 更是我未來的一部分.
基本上, 她的離開, 的確是把我生命的一部分給取走了

可是, 我絕對不是在找一個愛的替身..
因為我不喜歡作人於人之間的比較..
這兩個她, 絕對不能作比較
因為愛情是不能比較的, 當你一比較, 天秤就會不平衡
而當天秤一不平衡, 所有在天秤上的人, 都會受到傷害

我會說那一句話, 是好讓你能夠有一個聯想,
並了解所謂的 “一直以來我尋尋覓覓的, 就是那一個類型的” 這句話
過去的那個她像煙火般的璀璨, 曾經照亮了我的生命,
我希望的是, 接下來的這個她, 將能夠和我譜出最動聽的生命之歌,

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“兩個人之間在一起, 除了開心, 更要學會分憂, 和學會互相尊重和互相體諒..
況且, 兩個人在一起之所以有意思..
正因為是思想觀念上既有交集, 也同時有分歧
因為那才會有思想上的共識, 和言語上的交流”

這句話說給我自己聽, 也同時說給妳聽, 希望妳能明白我想告訴妳甚麼…

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開心, 其實真的可以很簡單

愛情這一條路最難走的部分, 不是要怎麼讓對方開心, 而是要怎麼讓自己開心,
因為能夠看到妳開心, 愛妳的人自然而然就會開心
更因為一個真正愛妳的人, 他的目的真的只不過純粹是要妳開心而已

兩個人在一起, 真的應該學會甚麼叫做 “執子之手”

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today while i was doing my daily readings. i came came across a very serious crime. someone posted a flaming and tamil bashing comments in the name of zorro, a senior blogger, whose blog i read daily. though i yet to have a chance to meet him, i’m almost 100% sure that it wasn’t written by him at all. from the sentence structure, the choice of vocabulary as well as the tone. it gave me a totally different feel from the usual zorro’s blog posts.

anyway, as at the time my post is published, the post had been taken down on mahaguru’s site,

if you’re interested in reading what had actually happened, you can refer to Susan Loone’s blog, another blog which i read daily as well. for your convenience sake, here’s the direct LINK to the post, only the latter half of the blog post was by the impersonator.

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i can’t agree more with what Ms. Susan said:“Whoever who did this is really SICK and probably needs a big dose of medicines, rehabilitation and probably social and mental reconstruction.” 

and for your information, i have lived in Singapore for 7 years. something you mentioned about Singapore is DEFINITELY WRONG, for example: do you know that Singapore does not allow Malays to become soldiers????.

the truth is, Singapore ALLOWS Malay to become soldiers, IN FACT, all Singapore citizens of age 18 years have to serve National Service in the Singapore Armed Forces, IRREGARDLESS OF HIS RACE. and citizens from all races are allowed to be enrolled into Singapore Armed Forces. Please do some reasearch before you make your point. i would like to quote what you’ve said: GIVE ME FACTS, ok? FACTS !!

and for your information as well, i have a few Singaporean friends who are Malay are actually in the Singapore Armed Forces combat units currently, if you would like their contact and testimonials, do contact me.. and here’s the LINK to the Singapore Armed Forces Online Recruitment Form. i see no lines saying that MALAY ARE NOT ALLOWED TO BECOME SOLDIERS. not even close !

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frankly speaking, impersonator should really be burnt in hell.. they are cowards and losers who do not have guts to reveal their names while giving an opinion of theirs.

it is this group of black sheeps that give us, the bloggers a bad name. the childish, uncivilized, irresponsible, unthoughtful comment or blog post of yours provoke social unrest, and incite racial disharmony. you are truly the extremists like what you cite the others.

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YOU, the zorro impersonator, you not only makes me sick, you disgust me as well. you bring only shame to the blogging community and you bring disgrace to this country as a Malaysian.

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thank god that my buddy’s friend Ms. Dora Goh is safe and sound now.

shortly after the crime took place yesterday, the news about the kidnapping case have already reached thousands of people within hours through the alternative media, sending out alerts and SOS messages.

however, after browsing through tonnes of related blogs and sms messages, i realized that there are a few flaws, such as:

  • some of the blogs state that Dora is 24 years old this year while some says that she is 25 years old.
  • description of her physical appearance such as height, feature, the outfit she’s wearing when the crime took place
  • description of the kidnappers’ vehicle, some said it was silver, some said it was gold
  • there are also multiple versions of contact numbers as well as contact person.
  • ironically, some even claimed that it was just a hoax.

i guess we’re really in need of a unified messaging and alert system of our own so that we don’t need to read multiple versions of information, read about this blogger’s concept HERE
however, based on my experience on building and managing a community, in order to make this an effective system. there are a few things we need to put into serious considerations:

  1. Ensure the Accruracy, Consistency and Authenticity of the information which will be posted on the Alert System as well as being dispersed to the general public
  2. a proper managing team to constantly update, manage and insert the related and necessary information
  3. key contact person for all cases as well as all the necessary follow ups with mainstream media, related authority as well as the victim’s next of kin.
  4. ensure that it will not become a controlled media.

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all in all, i am 100% supportive in this National Crime Alert Centre concept as i personally think that we really need some sort of information dispatch centre to reach the general public in the fastest way with the MOST accurate information utilizing the existing communication infrastructure, which in this case, are our SMS system, blogs, online media and portals.

Mr. Khoo, if you happen to read this, you can contact me personally at my email ken @ ximplicity [dot] net, we can discuss more about this. for the rest of you who are willing to lend a hand on this, you are welcome to post your opinions here or at Khoo’s blog as well.

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latest updates:

Ms DORA GOH is released this morning, and is in the hospital currently.

Thank you everybody for your efforts and helps

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Received an SMS from my best buddy earlier this morning:

 

My friend DORA was kidnapped! Anybody witness TOYOTA CAMRY in SILVER. plate 7641. Inside Got 3 GUYS, 1 FAT GUY, and 1 THIN GUY. another driving, so i’m not sure. she wif permed hair. Chinese, 24 years old. Location Subang Glenmarie near PADINI holdings today 28 Nov! Pls Help n call me if u c it!

so, please help to look out for:

 

  1. SILVER TOYOTA CAMRY
  2. Plate number 7641

the girl mia is Ms. DORA GOH WEI WEI, Chinese 24 years old, Perm hair

here’s a photo of her:

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found this from one of the animation i adore very much.

would love to share this with everybody as i think it’s pretty interesting, at the same time, increase my post count a little..

have a great mid week, everybody.. and enjoy your Wednesday

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sorry guys, i know this is pretty late, but this is from the Star Online:

KUALA LUMPUR: Do not incite disunity or racial disharmony because once ignited, it will be difficult to douse, said Deputy Prime Minister Datuk Seri Najib Tun Razak. He said unity, mutual understanding and respect among the different races was achieved through the struggles of the country’s forefathers and should be defended by all.

“It is easy to destroy what we have built, but to rebuild will be difficult. When something is destroyed, no one gains,” he said at the national Deepavali celebration organised by the Culture, Arts and Heritage Ministry at the KL Sentral carpark on Sunday.

He was referring to the rally organised by a non-governmental organisation called Bersih which lead to the handing over of a memorandum to a palace official in Istana Negara on Saturday afternoon.

Read the full story HERE

ish… bro, i personally can’t relate BERSIH Rally to Racial Disharmony at all. in fact, the most precious thing that we’ve seen on that day, was the Unity of people from different races, professions and social backgrounds. i really can’t agree at all that BERSIH rally is inciting any racial disharmony because it wasn’t talking about any RACIAL issue at all. and please, simply because we totally understand the true meaning of “unity, mutual understanding and respect among the different races was achieved through the struggles of the country’s forefathers and should be defended by all.” that is the why we called for a street demonstration, marched to the palace to submit a memorandum.

because we do not want all we are having now to be destroyed by a corrupted, and incapable government that is filled with dirty, greedy, under-performed and inconsiderate idiots.

i can’t agree no more that Street Demonstrations WERE never part of the Malaysians’ culture, however i’m afraid that is not the case anymore, because we don’t have a platform to voice our opinions, even if we do, there’re no ears who are willing to listen to what we have to say, and even if there’s any ear, they listen but they don’t understand nor take any action. the government does not listen, the government wants to do things their way irregardless of what the rakyat thinks, hence we have to go on the street and appeal to our King.

however, when i was reading the news, You know what disappointed me most?

“If they can gather 10,000 people, the Government through Barisan Nasional can gather even more people.”, this is the exact same phrase nazri spoke of during the Al-Jazeera 101 East Interview i’ve posted earlier. for goodness sake, it really sounds like gangster threaten to me. the following clip from youtube is for you to visualize a little (from the HK movie The Young & The Dangerous)

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my final line is: BERSIH rally isn’t inciting any racial issue and disunity, in fact, the RAKYAT are now more united than ever before, to tell YOU PEOPLE UP THERE that we are not happy with you and the things that you are doing, stop giving lame excuses, fucked up speech, manipulating the media and twist the facts around. we love Malaysia, We love our country and the Rakyat are all united as ONE to ask you to either wake your fucking mind up, or you are out of your blardy office after the next election. PERIOD.

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for those of you who travel a lot on PLUS highways

KUALA LUMPUR, Nov 23 (Bernama) — Toll road operator Plus Expressways Bhd is still waiting for the government decision on the proposed toll increase next year and the quantum involved, managing director Noorizah Abdul Hamid said today.

“I don’t know when the Cabinet is going to discuss this. We are just waiting for the government to revert to us,” she told reporters after the company’s extraordinary general meeting here.

She said Plus was entitled to a 10 per cent toll hike for the next three years from January 2008 after the last increase in January 2005, based on the agreement with the government.

for full story, click HERE

in fact, i don’t have much to say about this toll hike thing, as it’s inevitable as long as Uncle Sam still in reign of the throne. i mean, come on la, since when has he fought for our benefits when it comes to these things? and since when has he spoken on behalf of the rakyat? he didn’t even do shit about his own kuil being torn down by his own minions. goodness sake.

dei, yif you yare not going to do yanything yabout this, just like your yown people said yon the TV, no vote for you la dei, not ya single vote for you, NO !

Kanasai ! toll hike again !

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I WILL NOT BUY CIGARETTES TODAY !!!!!!

 

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ah fuck it la.. i kept thinking about ciggy..
since i had only 2 yesterday.. i’m gonna go get a small pack now, anyway, it’s already “tomorrow” since it’s passed 12mn, i still kept my words ~

ish…

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Though it’s not really in our Malaysian culture to celebrate Thanks Giving day.

i’m sure some of you peeps out there are celebrating today..

Have a good meal with your family, and be thankful for things you had, and having, for today is THANKSGIVING DAY

A VERY PEACEFUL and HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL OF YOU PEEPS !

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Got this off from a forwarded email, i thought it was hysterically hilarious yet pretty brilliant. go on and have a good laugh.

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Some girl posted this entry in one of the American’s largest finance focused forum.

I’m going to be honest of what I’m going to say here. I’m 25 this year. I’m very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above. You might say that I’m greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York. My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married? I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you? Among those I’ve dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit. If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden (?), $250k annual income is not enough.

I’m here humbly to ask a few questions:
1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)
2) Which age group should I target?
3) Why most wives of the riches is only average-looking? I’ve met a few girls who doesn’t have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys
4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)

Ms. Pretty

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Here’s a reply from a Wall Street Financial guy:

Dear Ms. Pretty,

I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyze your situation as a professional investor. My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I’m not wasting time here.

From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain. Put the details aside, what you’re trying to do is an exchange of “beauty” and “money”: Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square. However, there’s a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can’t be prettier year after year. Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It’s not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worried 10 years later

By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a “trading position”. If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term - same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or “leased”. Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income. This has better chance than finding a rich fool.

Hope this reply helps. If you are interested in “leasing” services, do contact me

signed,

J.P. Morgan

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